  
          Embrace the Present in this New Year
          By Soni  Cantrell-Smith 
          As the  calendar flips to a new year, we set resolutions. We create a list of goals. We  vow to exercise more, eat healthier, save money, be happier or learn a new  skill. While these aspirations are well intentioned, they lead to focusing on  the future, inadvertently pulling us away from the most precious moment — the  present.  
          Living in  the present moment requires discipline and practice. We may not be comfortable  being with what is right now. Mindfulness is an ancient practice of being fully  present, aware of where we are and what we    ’re doing, and not being overly reactive or overwhelmed by  what    ’s going  on around us.  
          So how  does this all relate to New Year's  resolutions? First, I believe the fear of not achieving our resolutions can  lead to stress and anxiety. … Practicing mindfulness allows us to let go and  focus on the present moment. … Mindfulness invites us to be present without  judgment.  
          Second,  New Year's  resolutions emphasize the result. … But when we live in the present, we learn  to find joy in the journey itself. Instead of fixating on the end goal, we  celebrate each small step.  
          Third, we  may treat ourselves harshly if we fail to live up to our resolutions.  Mindfulness engenders self-compassion. … We can acknowledge our choices and  make more mindful ones going forward.  
          New Year's  intentions can be powerful tools for personal development and growth. But  remember, they shouldn't  overshadow the importance of living in the present moment. As the new year  begins, I invite all of us to set our intentions with the understanding that  the present moment is where our lives are truly lived, and it's here  that we can find lasting fulfillment and happiness.  
          — Excerpted  from the January 2024 Science of Mind magazine  |